It'll be worse when it comes out without you intending it to than if you tell your friend yourself.
Trust me, my best friend doesn't even remember who I am but he still found out, he was upset that I didn't tell him. There could be a lot of nasty stuff tied up in what you're not telling your friend, like he had to destroy me so the people that had us wouldn't destroy the both of us, but this person cares about you don't they? So you're probably keeping it secret because it might hurt them.
Well.
They still want to know. Because they care about you. And keeping secrets doesn't just hurt them, it hurts you too, it eats you up inside until you can't bring yourself to smile at them. That's the worst thing that can happen to friends.
[This is not anonymous on her end]
Zero clue.
But still, this is pretty important.]
It'll be worse when it comes out without you intending it to than if you tell your friend yourself.
Trust me, my best friend doesn't even remember who I am but he still found out, he was upset that I didn't tell him. There could be a lot of nasty stuff tied up in what you're not telling your friend, like he had to destroy me so the people that had us wouldn't destroy the both of us, but this person cares about you don't they? So you're probably keeping it secret because it might hurt them.
Well.
They still want to know. Because they care about you. And keeping secrets doesn't just hurt them, it hurts you too, it eats you up inside until you can't bring yourself to smile at them. That's the worst thing that can happen to friends.