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dave mamahecking strider ([personal profile] callbacks) wrote2015-12-17 03:35 pm

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[Cleared font formatting, check. Autocorrect, check. Masked I.D., triple check. Dave's been wrestling with this question for over a week, and he's no closer to an answer than he was eight days ago. No closer than he was three years ago.

Where's Dear Abby when you need advice?]


Have you ever been in a situation
Where you knew something somebody else didn't
And you weren't sure if you should tell them or not
Like you knew that if they found out they'd be really upset but there's also nothing they could do about it
And you don't want them to blame themselves
Or
Get mad at you
But pretending it didn't happen feels
I don't know
A lot like lying I guess
What would you do in those circumstances?

I'm asking for a friend.
irenicly: (☕ don't make no sense)

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[personal profile] irenicly 2015-12-18 01:56 am (UTC)(link)
Maybe not.

Sometimes it's worth just pretending it hasn't happened, though. It's not worth the pain.
Edited 2015-12-18 01:57 (UTC)
irenicly: (☕  distant loud chuckles)

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[personal profile] irenicly 2015-12-18 06:17 am (UTC)(link)
Both.

Call it selfish thinking, maybe, but it's not worth them being in pain, either.
irenicly: (☕  distant loud chuckles)

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[personal profile] irenicly 2015-12-20 07:43 am (UTC)(link)
It's possible.

But if you let them know you were looking out for them... I don't think they could stay mad forever.
irenicly: (☔ but i wish i'd see a field below)

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[personal profile] irenicly 2015-12-22 03:25 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah.

It fucking sucks.

At least this world is peaceful.
irenicly: (♨ don't you make a move tonight)

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[personal profile] irenicly 2015-12-27 01:28 am (UTC)(link)
Sometimes people will go to sleep for a while, and then wake up remembering more than happened to them.

It hasn't happened yet to the person I know, though. Maybe the same will happen to you.
irenicly: (☕  distant loud chuckles)

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[personal profile] irenicly 2015-12-27 04:36 am (UTC)(link)
All we can do is hope it doesn't happen.

Pretty lousy, but neither of us have much of a choice.
irenicly: (☕ awkward instances)

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[personal profile] irenicly 2015-12-28 10:03 pm (UTC)(link)
Yeah.

Good luck.