callbacks: (i got this for you)
dave mamahecking strider ([personal profile] callbacks) wrote2015-12-17 03:35 pm

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[Cleared font formatting, check. Autocorrect, check. Masked I.D., triple check. Dave's been wrestling with this question for over a week, and he's no closer to an answer than he was eight days ago. No closer than he was three years ago.

Where's Dear Abby when you need advice?]


Have you ever been in a situation
Where you knew something somebody else didn't
And you weren't sure if you should tell them or not
Like you knew that if they found out they'd be really upset but there's also nothing they could do about it
And you don't want them to blame themselves
Or
Get mad at you
But pretending it didn't happen feels
I don't know
A lot like lying I guess
What would you do in those circumstances?

I'm asking for a friend.
defyingfrigidity: (some things I cannot change)

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[personal profile] defyingfrigidity 2015-12-20 07:02 am (UTC)(link)
You can't let others try and tell you what you were feeling. The only one who truly knows why you wanted to take these actions is you.

Your sister... does she know the full story? Did you tell her everything about what you were feeling when you did it? If not, then she can't really make assumptions like that.

Many people thought I was evil, for example, when I did something bad on a complete accident. All they saw was the danger I posed to others, and how I ran away after it happened. But the story behind it was... very different.